I love being a wife. Getting married was, seriously, the best decision I ever made. I've heard every single negative thing about me getting married as young as I did. However, it was what worked for our situation. It's not right for everyone, I'd never encourage just anyone to get married before they're 20. It was a decision that required lots of prayer, contemplation and scripture study. When the time is right, you know it is right. Timing is everything. I know how cliche it sounds, but it is. My own mother didn't get married until she was 39. That was when the time was right for her. The time was right for me at 19.
As much as I love being a wife, I am SO excited to be a mother. I can't wait to have little JD and Megan combinations running around, making my house a mess, pulling my hair/earrings out and keeping me awake until all hours of the night. Nothing makes me happier that I decided to share my life with JD then when I think about the children we will have together.
Now that you know my background, I'd like to disband a few "myths" about women who are feminists:
- All feminists hate men. FALSE. I love men. I love my husband. I don't believe every man is trying to oppress me or put me down. However, I do believe there are some out there who do oppress, abuse and take advantage of women. It's a sad fact of our society. I just happened to be lucky enough to have the self esteem and good sense to not associate with men of that breed.
- Women who stay at home with their children are being oppressed by their husbands. FALSE. My goal in life is to become a stay-at-home mother. Feminism is about women choosing what they want to do. If they want to pursue being a stay-at-home mother, great! If they want to become a doctor, also cool!
- Women who wear make up, do their hair and dress nice are conforming to society's idea of beauty. FALSE. Fun fact: I'm obsessed with doing hair and make up. I love getting ready in the morning. Women don't have to do their hair and makeup to be beautiful. However, that doesn't mean they shouldn't or can't.
- Feminism is a bunch of women being whiny. FALSE. Feminism is about women being able to pay the same amount of money for products/services as men, be paid the same amount of money for the same job as men, be treated with respect, being allowed to make their own health decisions, etc. Women deserve to have a CHOICE and not be directed by the government or others just because they have a uterus.
- All feminists are democrats. FALSE. I'm a registered republican, although I label myself as more of an independent. I think democrats are stupid. I also think republicans are stupid. I think they both have good points and also have terrible points. However, I agree more with the republican party regarding economic issues and tend to sway to the democratic party for social issues. Essentially, I vote for whomever/whatever issue make the most logical, ethical and moral sense.
I'm a strange, republican woman that believes in the radical notion that women should be treated like people. Also, here's my favorite observation ever on the new "Bic for Women" pens. Seriously, have you seen this yet? What are your thoughts? Do I sound completely stupid or do I make any sense?