Yes, the blissful newlywed stage seems to be great to the outsider looking in. They're happy to be alive, happy to be united with the one you love for eternity, also you're riding the high of having an entire party devoted just to you and your love. The bride and groom look so joyful you just must imagine they never speak ill to each other, constantly serenading each other with their loving words. Perfection, is the one word that most use to describe those in such a blissful stage.
I vividly remember sitting in the Salt Lake City LDS Temple, clinging to my soon-to-be hubby's hand with tears in my eyes thinking "I will never love him as much as I love him right now." Which, to be honest was a bunch of bologna. Because I can tell you with absolute certainty that I love my cute hubby SO MUCH MORE than I ever did on our wedding day.
Sure, there are things that get worse. Household chores get bothersome, sometimes arguments ensue over nothing in particular, sometimes you just feel the need to get your frustrations out and your spouse is the only one there. It can be really difficult, I'd never in my life say that spending your eternity with another imperfect person and trying to figure out how to make your imperfections work together is an easy task.
Each day that we argue over what game to play, each day that we support each other in making big decisions, each day we frustratedly give up on a Coca-Cola puzzle, each day that we argue until we're blue in the face about directions to a new place, I love him more and more. Because we can do hard things! You never know how much you love someone until they start doing chores without you asking them. You never know how much you love someone until they are having to care for you when you can't care for yourself. You never know how much you love someone until you have done hard things together.
We can do hard things, and I'm so grateful we made it through the newlywed phase so we can really know what love is like. Congrats to all of the lovely, gorgeous, amazing new brides and grooms out there. But I hope you know, it gets SO much better.
Us on our wedding day June 21, 2012 vs. Us at Dani and Brett's Wedding June 20, 2014